Where is the love?

If Mr. Bingley had loved me like I loved him, why did he not fight for me ? I would not have given up on such a strong feeling as this. Why was so easily influenced by Darcy? I know for a fact Lizzy would have never been persuaded if Charlotte had told her who wasn't fit for her. But what if Darcy didn't do much and Bingley quickly agreed to forget me? If I could only read his mind, better yet his heart to know who it longs for!